My Parenting

I guess that is a weird post title.

But I wasn't sure what to put. 

I've had a handful of friends ask me about Piper.

She talks a lot! 

More than some 3-year olds (according to our doctor)

I've had some ask me if there is something that we have done

to encourage that.

I want to laugh because we haven't done a thing.

I have, however, tried to encourage her to talk as much as I can.

But, I think what Trevor and I have done the most,

is to try and talk to her like an equal.

Once, a few years ago, while I was working at Color Me Mine,

I watched a mom interacting with her 4 year old daughter.

She talked to her like a friend and treated her very respectfully.

It was very refreshing since most parent's aren't like that with their 

kids at at pottery painting studio. 

This mom really impacted me.

I wanted to treat my little kids just like that.

And that's what I try to do.

I try to stay cool headed and treat Piper like an equal.

I try to talk to her like she's a grown-up, I guess.

 I try to use words she understands, 

but I do try to tell her new words and teach her new things.

I just try to never talk down to her, literally or in tone.

I like to get down to her level and have a real conversation with her.

I think that since Piper feels listened to,

she has felt encouraged to talk on her own.

And that's all.

I've read one parenting book, but I really try to follow my instincts.

As she's getting older and we are starting new things (i.e. potty training)

I'll probably look to books for more advice.

But, I guess that is my advice for all moms.

Follow your instincts!

And a little video of my sweet little girl

up-side-down sunglasses and all!